10 Things You Should Never Do to Your Dog – Strengthen Your Bond
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Table of content
1. Making Your Dog Jealous on Purpose 2. Handling a Mother Dog’s Puppies Without Permission 3. Pulling Your Dog’s Tail 4. Keeping Your Dog Confined for Long Periods 5. Using Physical Punishment 6. Deliberately Scaring Your Dog 7. Taking Away Their Food as a Joke 8. Forcing Cuddles or Petting 9. Dressing Your Dog in Uncomfortable Clothes 10. Ignoring Your Dog for Long Periods Final Thoughts
Do you consider your dog your best friend, someone you can share anything with? Maybe you feel like your dog would never get upset with you and always wags their tail no matter what you do. If so, think again! While dogs are incredibly loyal, there are certain things you should never do, even with the closest bond. These actions can harm your relationship or even cause your dog to become fearful or aggressive. Let’s dive into the top 10 things you should avoid to keep your furry friend happy and trusting.
1. Making Your Dog Jealous on Purpose
Dogs are naturally loyal and attentive, forming deep bonds with their owners. However, their emotional intelligence means they notice when they’re not the center of your attention. If you shower affection on another dog in their presence, they might interpret it as a sign of rejection. This isn’t just about jealousy—it can lead to feelings of insecurity, anxiety, or even depression in your dog. Instead, balance your attention and ensure your dog knows they’re loved. If you’re interacting with other pets, reassure them with kind words or a quick pat afterward.
Photo by Burak Akmanoğlu: https://www.pexels.com/photo/small-dog-playfully-interacting-indoors-29679354/
2. Handling a Mother Dog’s Puppies Without Permission
After giving birth, mother dogs experience heightened instincts to protect their young. This protective behavior is biologically driven and necessary for their pups’ survival. Even if the mother trusts you, touching her puppies too soon may trigger defensive behavior or stress. Additionally, newborn puppies are fragile and susceptible to human germs, so handling them without care can inadvertently cause harm. Always approach slowly, let the mother sniff and accept your presence, and only handle the puppies if absolutely necessary.
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3. Pulling Your Dog’s Tail
While a wagging tail might look like a toy to some, it’s an integral part of a dog’s anatomy. The tail helps with balance, communication, and expressing emotions. Pulling or tugging can overstimulate their nerves, causing pain or injury. For some dogs, this action may feel as intrusive as pulling someone’s hair. Respect their body by avoiding unnecessary roughness, and teach children in your household to do the same to prevent accidental harm.
https://www.savingorphansouls.org/what-does-your-dogs-tail-say
4. Keeping Your Dog Confined for Long Periods
Crates or small spaces can be useful tools for training and safety, but they should never be a permanent solution. Dogs confined for too long may develop separation anxiety, obsessive behaviors like pacing or chewing, or even physical health issues like muscle atrophy. Make a habit of daily walks and interactive play sessions to give them the stimulation they need. Even if your home lacks a yard, trips to parks or open spaces can help release pent-up energy.
Photo by Jimmy Chan: https://www.pexels.com/photo/white-dog-inside-the-cage-951344/
5. Using Physical Punishment
Dogs don’t understand punishment the same way humans do. Physical aggression often instills fear rather than teaching a lesson, which can manifest as submissiveness, anxiety, or defensive aggression over time. Positive reinforcement is far more effective in shaping good behavior. For instance, if your dog chews on furniture, provide appropriate chew toys and reward them when they use them. This approach not only corrects the behavior but also strengthens the trust they have in you.
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6. Deliberately Scaring Your Dog
Fear-based interactions can damage your dog’s sense of safety. Startling them with loud noises, sudden movements, or scary objects might seem funny in the moment but can have lasting consequences. Fear responses often include trembling, hiding, or even uncharacteristic aggression. Over time, these interactions erode trust and may increase the likelihood of phobias or behavioral issues. Instead, create a calm environment and comfort them during stressful situations like thunderstorms or fireworks.
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7. Taking Away Their Food as a Joke
Guarding food is a natural instinct for dogs, a behavior inherited from their wild ancestors. Pretending to take their food disrupts their sense of security and can foster defensive behaviors like growling or snapping. If your dog shows signs of food aggression, work on building trust through training and gradual desensitization. Always respect their need to eat in peace, and provide a quiet, uninterrupted space for meals.
Learn More: Food Bowl Aggression in Dogs
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8. Forcing Cuddles or Petting
Just like people, dogs have unique personalities. While some adore snuggling, others might find excessive physical contact overwhelming. Signs that your dog is uncomfortable include moving away, turning their head, or lowering their ears. Instead of forcing affection, let your dog initiate contact. By respecting their boundaries, you build a stronger, more trusting relationship.
Learn More: Cuddling your dog: where to pet them to make them happy
https://www.dogsavvylosangeles.com/blog/2024/9/12/how-to-build-an-instant-bond-with-your-new-puppy
9. Dressing Your Dog in Uncomfortable Clothes
Though dressing dogs in cute outfits is a popular trend, it’s important to consider their comfort and natural behavior. Many dogs feel restricted or overheated in clothing, especially items with tight straps or heavy fabrics. If you must dress your dog, opt for lightweight, breathable materials and ensure the fit allows for natural movement. Observe their body language—if they seem uncomfortable, remove the outfit immediately. Remember, your dog’s well-being should always take precedence over aesthetics.
https://www.dogster.com/lifestyle/do-dogs-mind-wearing-costumes
10. Ignoring Your Dog for Long Periods
Dogs are social creatures that thrive on interaction with their owners. Prolonged neglect can lead to emotional distress, causing destructive behaviors like chewing furniture or barking excessively. Even a few minutes of daily quality time—whether through play, training, or cuddling—can make a world of difference. Consider incorporating interactive toys or puzzles to keep them engaged while you’re busy, but never underestimate the value of personal attention.
https://centralbrowardvet.com/blog/dog-separation-anxiety/
Final Thoughts
Your dog’s trust and happiness depend on the care, respect, and love you provide. By avoiding these 10 common mistakes, you ensure your furry friend feels safe, valued, and loved. In return, you’ll enjoy a loyal companion who brings endless joy to your life. 🐾